Quick Poll: Does your chronic condition affect your self-esteem? And what do you do to feel good about yourself?

Dr Gary
By Dr GaryCA Latest Reply 2016-10-25 22:35:37 -0500
Started 2016-07-21 15:14:25 -0500

“I just don’t feel very good about myself.”

Clients say that a lot to me. In fact, I think low self-esteem is one of the major reasons clients come to see therapists.

My clients who are living with a chronic condition often talk about their self-esteem in terms of how they are labeling – if not defining – themselves, as a person with a chronic condition. The limitations that their chronic condition has imposed, the day-to-day responsibilities, feeling somehow different from others… can take a toll on how you look at yourself.

No doubt about it, living with a chronic condition can affect on your self-esteem.

Here’s a link to an article on self-esteem that I recently posted:


Now, I am curious about you. Does your chronic condition affect your self-esteem? If so, in what way? If not, what do you do to keep that from happening?

And, what you do to boost your own self-esteem? Anything you do to feel good about yourself?

Need some ideas?

2 replies

LadyMeat 2016-10-12 23:00:51 -0500 Report

Yes, all the time. My scoliosis prevents me from wearing certain dresses bc they fit crooked on my body… it's hard being a 20 year old female and having an ok self esteem with today's media and tacking on an illness doesn't help. I just feel as if famous people aren't affected (which I know isn't the case). But I want to know that I am not alone… I feel as if I am the only college girl who has 5 different doctors and needs to take meds all the time. My mother has taught me to love myself, but it's hard when my condition makes me feel like a sick weakly sob story.

Dr Gary
Dr GaryCA 2016-10-25 22:35:37 -0500 Report

Hi LadyMeat, thanks so much for checking in. I'm sorry you are dealing with so much. I understand what you're saying, it's not easy living with a chronic condition that affects your appearance in this looks obsessed culture we live in. I am glad to hear you mom has given you such wise advice. Yes, we have to love ourselves first, for who we are, our strengths, our accomplishments, the ways in which we give to others, and our shortcomings. You are not alone. I hope you will stay in touch with us!